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Im a gay woman who have the hardest time meeting other gay woman. I cant figure out who is gay or not (my gaydar is broken , lol ) and most of my friends say they had no idea i was gay before i told them. How do I change this? ShouldI change this ? I just want to meet someone i connect with? It is my guess that if you cant tell Im gay then one will approach me ever.

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Asked by Anonymous at 7:20 PM on Oct. 10, 2010 in Relationships

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  • gay bars? idk

    Answer by mywonderyears at 7:23 PM on Oct. 10, 2010

  • Maybe a gay parents support group?

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:24 PM on Oct. 10, 2010

  • Look up your local PRIDE chapter.

    Answer by at 7:28 PM on Oct. 10, 2010

  • Maybe an online dating site? I know that can feel kinda wierd but, a friend of mine used one and is really happy with it.

    Answer by momofone072506 at 7:30 PM on Oct. 10, 2010

  • If you join some gay and lesbian political or social groups, you'll meet other gay women, and once you make friends, maybe they'll start introducing you to their lesbian friends. Once you know 30 or 40 gay women, you'll at least have some connections for meeting new people at parties, etc.

    Answer by SWasson at 8:06 PM on Oct. 10, 2010

  • depending on your age you could look up college gay rights groups they can help :) just b yourself i come across as straight but im bi after awhil being round women they get the vibe just give it time and b happy with who u are

    Answer by Kittty_Katt at 11:30 PM on Oct. 10, 2010

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