It looks like Buckner has many facets relating to foster care AND adoption AND parenting. Does anyone have any experience on any level with them?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 12:27 PM on Oct. 11, 2010 in Adoption
Answer by drfink at 12:58 PM on Oct. 11, 2010
Answer by onethentwins at 1:11 PM on Oct. 11, 2010
Answer by drfink at 2:07 PM on Oct. 11, 2010
Answer by Southernroots at 9:25 PM on Oct. 11, 2010
Answer by mekarevell at 12:04 AM on Oct. 12, 2010
Answer by onethentwins at 1:16 PM on Oct. 12, 2010
My recent and past dealings with them have been bad. They lied about being a portal between birth mothers and children they relinquished. They promised and offered to keep letters,contact info and more WHAT A BIG PILE.I kept contact checking almost yearly, double checking my info,my sisters info,when my 26 yr old realized he requested to be put on the list as aback up.Many phone calls over the years where they would almost immediately tell me there had been no inquires.Shortly before deployment my son requested his name be removed so it would not go unanswered if my oldest should call.I did and apparently was connected to a different office and they called me back to tell me there was never any record of me calling at all basically a closed file.Of course I went further and that is how it is .Their attitude has ;been flip.It has been difficult to get a straight answer if there had been any inquiries.
Answer by drfink at 9:27 PM on Oct. 12, 2010
Nothing has changed since they refused to let the women there make or receive calls till after paperwork was signed.This was to protect us??????B.S.,when I asked about changing my mind less than 24 hours after signing they told me I no longer had any rights.They lied about some paperwork that was signed by the father 2 months early .They continue to lie ,only now they talk in circles so it is harder to pin down what they are saying.It is no longer ok to act as if they are doing Gods work to save innocent babies from immoral mothers so they sugar coat it all.I've read the website also.I might have felt they had changed if my more recent experiences had them having compassion for not following through and not lieing to cover their tracks.
Answer by drfink at 9:41 PM on Oct. 12, 2010
Answer by onethentwins at 2:56 AM on Oct. 13, 2010
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