When my SO is angry at me he says really awful, hurtful things.. Like things like I'm defective and he told me once that his family hates me and he doesn't blame them, things like that - that you don't forget.
When I get really angry at him I throw stuff (nothing that would hurt anyone.. like throwing a few pasta boxes and a box of tea into the pantry)..
We both lose our cool in non-productive manners. I try to fight fair but it always turns into an argument where he says really hurtful things and I end up stomping/throwing.
He says that I'm much worse and his way is more "grown up" and I am extremely childish.
Okay. Throwing pasta doesn't make someone doubt their love for you or make you feel worthless.. awful words do. I blow up and don't hurt his feelings badly and we can move on from it. If he blows up he says things that are almost unforgivable.
I think we both need to grow up a bit more. Right?
Asked by Anonymous at 8:52 PM on Oct. 11, 2010 in Relationships
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