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What would you think of a "dad" who updates his profile to say this ?

This "dad" just updated his myspace and facebook to say this :

" My name is Shane, I am 28 years old, i am engaged to the most amazing, sexy female ever. I have a 3 year old son who i do love, but I rather spend my time hanging with friends and sexing up my sexy lady ! "

Also not to mention the little boy just celebrated his 5th birthday !

His page is also filled with comments from his "sexy lady" ( who has never even met his son) talking about how good of a father he is and not to worry about not seeing his son right now because " when he is older and more fun to be around, we can get custody of him then" ( really whats he said !)

wow... I am just so ashamed to call him my brother !

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Asked by Anonymous at 9:54 AM on Oct. 12, 2010 in Parenting Debate

Answers (31)
  • IMHO, anyone who says "sexing up my sexy lady" is an embarrassment to humanity.

    Answer by SWasson at 9:56 AM on Oct. 12, 2010

  • WOW... Sounds like someone needs to grow up. That poor child. I'd let the mother know whats being said. (Screen shots) that way she can have proof of what they are doing in case they do every go after him for custody...


    Answer by lilmoosesmom at 9:56 AM on Oct. 12, 2010

  • I would think he has alot of growing up to do. She dosent sound much better.

    Answer by okmommy08 at 9:57 AM on Oct. 12, 2010

  • That's pretty sad. I feel sorry for his son, and hope he has a great mom. Whoever the "sexy lady" is, can't be much of a person if she doesn't see something wrong with this!! Hope they don't have kids together......

    Anyway, your brother sounds very immature, I'm sure you're a good aunt, and your nephew will need you.....

    Answer by ohwrite at 9:58 AM on Oct. 12, 2010

  • Sounds like you have a very immature brother!

    Answer by older at 9:58 AM on Oct. 12, 2010

  • I'm sorry about this- we've all got relatives that can be like that.

    I've got my doubts as to how long his relationship will last.

    Answer by ItsMe89 at 10:02 AM on Oct. 12, 2010

  • That is flat out awful. I am so sorry...

    Answer by BradenIsMySon at 10:04 AM on Oct. 12, 2010

  • Would totally irritate me, probably to the point where I would say something to him about it, although I wouldn't blast it all over Facebook or MySpace.

    Answer by QueenMomma2023 at 10:05 AM on Oct. 12, 2010

  • i would think he's an idiot and probably stop calling him my brother.

    Answer by tnm786 at 10:07 AM on Oct. 12, 2010

  • Ooooh ok... He's an idiot. sorry he;s your brother.

    Answer by sweetyazfl at 10:11 AM on Oct. 12, 2010

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