It's not that I don't love my husband with all of my heart, and I want to be intimate with him, but my sex drive has completely disappeared. Between his crappy work hours (he never gets home until 10:00pm) working full time, 2 kids, cleaning the house, making dinner, and just being plain exhausted by the end of the day I have no desire to have sex.
He doesn't understand why chores all day mixed with football when we finally do get into bed isn't at all at urn on. He thinks he tries to turn me on, but it takes a lot more than just a nibble on the neck. How do I get him to understand this? He told me last night that he's just given up on trying to make our sex life better than it is because I'm never in the mood. So I tell him "get me in the mood" and we star this whole argument over again..."I try but you never want to"... a never ending cycle.
How can I explain this to him? Better yet...how can I show him so he understand?
Answer by MeandMyBabes at 1:42 PM on Oct. 12, 2010
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