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2 Bumps

s/o would you rather have your SO leave you for a man or a woman?

I think either way I would feel the same, hurt and betrayed

 
mommy_of_two388

Asked by mommy_of_two388 at 4:39 PM on Oct. 12, 2010 in Relationships

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  • definitely a man. something about being left for another man is much less insulting than being left for a woman. i would have much less insecurity issues if he left me for a man. atleast i would know that there was nothing wrong with me, there was a glitch in his brain from birth that decided he should be attracted to the same sex.
    tnm786

    Answer by tnm786 at 4:44 PM on Oct. 12, 2010

  • I agree with the hurt and betrayed, but I guess I'd rather it be a man. With another woman I would always wonder what she had that I didn't. With a man, at least I would know what I was lacking!
    hootie826

    Answer by hootie826 at 4:56 PM on Oct. 12, 2010

  • I would feel hurt and betrayed, but I would rather be left for a man LOL
    MmmmMamaBear

    Answer by MmmmMamaBear at 5:15 PM on Oct. 12, 2010

  • a man would be less painful
    luckygurl17

    Answer by luckygurl17 at 5:18 PM on Oct. 12, 2010

  • Either way it would hurt. I would hope to someday be friends with the person he was with, for my kids sake. But man or woman.. that wont change how It would hurt. I almost think it would hurt more if it were a woman he left for. But.. I have no proof to back that up, lol I just assume it.
    Amelia512

    Answer by Amelia512 at 4:44 PM on Oct. 12, 2010

  • A man would be less painful then wondering what you didn't have to keep your man happy
    Moms_Angels1960

    Answer by Moms_Angels1960 at 5:23 PM on Oct. 12, 2010

  • I don't think I could pick either one myself.
    ItsMe89

    Answer by ItsMe89 at 6:06 PM on Oct. 12, 2010

  • wouldn't matter.

    One would hold no more betrayel, hurt, anger or pain than the other.

    Who/What a spouse chooses to cheat with & leave their family for doesn't matter as much in the long run, as the fact that they did it in general.

    pixie_trix

    Answer by pixie_trix at 6:24 PM on Oct. 12, 2010

  • I'm not sure it would make that much difference.
    earlgrey

    Answer by earlgrey at 6:46 PM on Oct. 12, 2010

  • Wouldn't matter to me. A break up is still painful no matter the reasons or circumstances.
    isabellalecour

    Answer by isabellalecour at 8:18 PM on Oct. 12, 2010

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