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Does anyone ever feel like you're interested in being sexually involved with another woman but afraid to be true to yourself? Do you feel like you are either bi-sexual or a lesbian, but are afraid of what others might think about you, if so please respond to my question because I would love to hear from others who are going through a similar situation.


Asked by browneyes27 at 4:45 PM on Oct. 12, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I have been with a girl and had a loving caring relationship with some. I love being true to myself. I dont care what anyone thinks of me.

    Answer by LiLJeni at 1:10 PM on Oct. 13, 2010

  • Yes and no. I find (some) women attractive and have fantasies but I don't feel urges to act on them but afraid to because of what others might think. I simply keep it to myself and enjoy it for what it is...a fantasy.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:56 PM on Oct. 12, 2010

  • I have been with a woman but its not something most people know about me. Most of my family would be upset/ grossed out. I will never regret it and if it were to happen again I would welcome it if it were the right person. I am bisexual but have no desire to have a woman as my life partner.

    Answer by xredstarsx at 5:47 PM on Oct. 12, 2010

  • I'm with you- but I don't think it's so much that I'm afraid of what people would think of me, It's just that I think a lot of men.

    that and I've never met a woman that I was truly in love with or would want to make a life with.

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:08 PM on Oct. 12, 2010

  • Wow xredstarsx, that sounds interesting. I know that many women have fantasies, but I honestly know that for me it's more than that. I feel like I don't have the desire to be intimate with men anymore, and for many years, I've felt like I wanted to be with another woman. Before I lost my virginity to my child's father I told him that I thought I was gay and he pursued me anyway. I fell in love and had his daughter and I'm glad we do share a child. We've broken up over 3 years ago and I can no longer push aside my feelings. What is it like to be with another woman? Thanks for responding to my question.

    Comment by browneyes27 (original poster) at 6:08 PM on Oct. 12, 2010

  • I'm starting to not care about what others think of me because it's my life and I'm free to be me wothout worrying about others' opinions of me. I want to get out of my comfort zone and experiece what it's like to make love to another woman because I think it would be so special.

    Comment by browneyes27 (original poster) at 1:48 PM on Oct. 13, 2010