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Why do men cheat???

Especially when they have good women at home? Do they get trier of been with the same person? I'm just curious.


Asked by TwannaB. at 1:42 AM on Oct. 14, 2010 in Relationships

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  • There can be many different factors. For some, it may be an addiction oto sex. (very few actually have this.) They need sex, and they feel they need more and different forms of sex. For them sex is a drug, and like any other drug, they eventually need more and more to satisfy them. Again, that is no excuse, and it is rare for an actual sexual addiction to be the cause.
    Maybe they feel something is lacking in thier marriage? IDK, there are 100 different reasons but what is the same for them all is that they are weak, and selfish. When you cheat your thinking only of yourself. You are throwing your SO, and your family out the window for a few moments of pleasure. It is discusting.

    Answer by RheaF at 7:34 AM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • Because they have two heads and can only think with one at a time?

    Answer by SarahLeeMorgan at 1:48 AM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • Because humans aren't meant to be monogamous... It's just not natural, and you can't fight nature. Men are wired to "spread the seed" so that's what they do.

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 2:04 AM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • I agree with SabrinaMBowen

    Answer by LiLJeni at 3:19 AM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • Because humans aren't meant to be monogamous..
    Speak for yourself. You might say some humans aren't meant to be monogamous. Not everyone is incapable of being respectful and loyal to their spouse.

    Answer by Queen2245 at 8:19 AM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • Just bc a man has a good woman does not mean that's it. If a wife is constantly saying no to him when it comes to sex he is going to stray it gets old for them they have to have their sex those bastards.

    Answer by Butterfly1108 at 2:04 AM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • Same reason Women cheat, I suppose. Ask my Brother's ex-wife why she cheated. It goes both ways.

    Answer by Zoeyis at 5:24 AM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • The same reason a women may choose to. Weak morals and selfishness.

    Answer by PinkLentil at 5:51 AM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • I wish I knew....if anyone can figure it out PLEASE enlighten me!!!!

    Answer by cancerfighter at 11:39 AM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • That's true SarahLeeMorgan. LMOA!!

    Comment by TwannaB. (original poster) at 1:54 AM on Oct. 14, 2010