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How do I find out for sure if my son is being molested

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 12:42 PM on Jul. 3, 2008 in General Parenting

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  • Talk to him, usually kids don't lie about stuff like that. And, it'll be hard, but ask specific questions and from the way he answers, then you'll know.
    queen_tut

    Answer by queen_tut at 12:44 PM on Jul. 3, 2008

  • First things First - take your son to his Pediatrician!!! Talk to the Doctor about whats going on, your concerns and have him examined! BE SURE NOT TO TELL ANYONE THAT YOU ARE TAKING HIM TO BE CHECKED OUT BY A DOCTOR, JUST INCASE SOMEONE OPENS THERE MOUTH AND ENDS UP TELLING THE PERSON THAT IS DOING THIS TO YOUR SON. CAUSE HE CAN DO MORE DAMAGE!!!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:46 PM on Jul. 3, 2008

  • First, why do you think your son is being molested? Are there signs? Bruising or redness where there shouldn't be or is he acting differently? Have him examined by a doctor and maybe speak to a child psychologist. You could try talking to your son but if he's old enough to be embarassed he might not tell you anything. If he's younger he might talk but he also might tell you what he thinks you want to hear. So it's difficult. If he draws, take the drawings to the psychologist (especially if they seem to depict something unusual).
    amethystrse

    Answer by amethystrse at 12:54 PM on Jul. 3, 2008

  • ask him, very delicately, talk to a dr, and
    ChasesMommy0115

    Answer by ChasesMommy0115 at 9:00 PM on Jul. 6, 2008

  • Keep asking!!!!! Let him know you can't help him if you don't know!! That's how I found out with my daughter.......
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:29 AM on Jul. 12, 2008

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