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3 Bumps

Do you know anyone with 3 or more baby daddies? What is the most number of baby daddies you know of someone having?

I actually have 3.

My 1st was when I was 16 and the 20 year old who got me pregnant left.

Then I became an adult and wanted 1 more, had it with a guy who I thought would be there for me as I told him I didn't want to be a single mom to 2 kids but he left too.

Then right after having my 2nd, I met my husband and he wanted a big family. I do too so we had 2 more.

4 if you count the time I was a surrogate.

 
keisha613

Asked by keisha613 at 2:10 PM on Oct. 14, 2010 in General Parenting

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Answers (17)
  • I know one who has 4 kids with 3 different men. One of which was a birth control failure and the guy is a total deadbeat. Then she got married and had two kids with her husband. I don't understand the double standard. Women are demonized for having children with different fathers and the men get off scott free and spread their seed. My cousin is like that. He has kids all over the place and is still married.
    Izsarejman

    Answer by Izsarejman at 4:19 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • lol my mother 3 baby daddies
    skin172

    Answer by skin172 at 2:11 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • My cousin has 4.
    Mom2Just1

    Answer by Mom2Just1 at 2:11 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • My aunt has 3. My uncle is a babies daddy to 5 women.
    Misteh

    Answer by Misteh at 2:13 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • Me personally.

    I do not know anyone who has had children with more than 1 man.

    I know, odd huh.. LOL But I think my age (48) is part of it, everyone I know is my age and older (not counting our children of course.. lol, but my child/none of my friend's children/nor any nieces-nephews etc.. have had children yet) , most have only been married 1x if married at all.
    pixie_trix

    Answer by pixie_trix at 2:14 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • My "second mother" has three children by different dads. Her oldest child, one of my BFFs, was her first husband. He became abusive shortly after my friend was born, so she left him. She ended up with his cousin or brother for a short period of time, and they had a child (I think they were engaged, but he kept cheating on her and had kids with like 4 other women around the same time until she found out). Then her youngest child, she had by the man she was married to for about 12 years, and she finally got away from him a couple of years ago (he was a cheating, abusive bastard). I think one of the girls I went to high school with already has two or three by different guys (we were class of '08), but I'm not sure enough to say.
    Mrs.BAT

    Answer by Mrs.BAT at 2:14 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • My son stepmom has 3 kids from 3 different men and same with my brothers wife, 3 kids 3 different dads
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 2:14 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • My sister has 5 kids with three guys, She has been pregnant a total of 8 times by 4 guys.
    Amelia512

    Answer by Amelia512 at 2:14 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • yes my husbands ex wife had 8 kids total and has been married a total of 6 times now. my hubby was #4 and they didnt have any kids thank goodness. but she has 1 by a man while in high school and 2 by her first husband and 3 by her second husband and 2 by her 3rd husband! last we heard she had her tubes tied and had surgery "down there" to make things tighter. she was a "special" women!
    Caroline2010

    Answer by Caroline2010 at 2:14 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • My sister in law has four. She had her first at 18, they had two kids together. She cheated on him and had her third with another guy, but the first guy raised him. Eventually she got bored and left him, had another baby with another guy who ended up in jail. Then she had another baby with another guy, who has three other kids with three other moms!

    YUCK! LOL
    FatGirl239

    Answer by FatGirl239 at 2:15 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

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