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When talking to other people about them, how do you refer to you in laws?

I realized I've never really "owned" them.. just an example, my sister has been married for a few months, and I still refer to her husband as just that.. HER husband.. I don't say MY brother in law.. just wondering if that is just me (and possibly because I don't like him? :-) )

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:44 PM on Oct. 14, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Nope they are my mother-in-law, father-in-law and brother-in-law. I love them as much as my own.

    Answer by Melbornj at 2:45 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • My sister LOVES her husband's siblings, and she calls them her brothers, and his parents her mom and dad.. I will never do that with my SO's parents when we get married. I guess I don't like them much, either! LOL

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 2:47 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • i call my moms husband " my moms husband" when i talk about him in any way... and it is because i do not like im not sure about the in laws...i just always say their names or SOs parents

    Answer by jaksonsmommy at 2:48 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • I don't want to use that type of language here. lol

    Answer by Erin814 at 2:51 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • my sisters husband i call my brother in law. but my husbands sister i call my husbands sister. probably because i dont really like her.

    Answer by jennifer588 at 2:56 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • Have to go anon for this so I don't have to hear about it for the next 20 yrs. I refer to them by Monster in law, Bastard in law and slut in law. Whats really bad, my husband is the one who came up with the names.

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:56 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • I don't have any siblings so I don't know how I'd refer to their spouses, probably the same way you do or just their name. But I don't usually call my husband's parents my "in-laws" I just say (my husband's name)'s mom/step dad. I refer to his brothers as just his brothers too, not my BILs.

    Answer by jessicarae787 at 3:00 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • i usually say ''dh's mom/sister/brother/niece/nephew''...there's not much of a relationship with any of them.

    Answer by dullscissors at 3:06 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • I refer to mine as father-in-law, fat hateful cunt, stupid hypocritical bitch, lord of the douchebags, and loser.....LMAO!

    I just refer to mine as FIL, MIL, SIL, BIL, and BIL when need be. Don't talk to any of them (except FIL) and I rarely ever talk about them.

    Answer by HaydensMama07 at 4:13 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

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