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Would you let your DH/SO buy a drink for a girl that seemed sad and lonely at the club/bar?

I told him no and he didnt but wanted to know why...I think he is sometimes so niave...

 
4_28_bbboy

Asked by 4_28_bbboy at 3:27 PM on Oct. 14, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Hmmm....if a strange guy came up and said "my wife and i would like to buy you a drink" i would think he was trying to get me drunk for a 3 some lol.
    wildwiccan83

    Answer by wildwiccan83 at 3:44 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • I can't picture my husband asking to buy her a drink but I could definitely see him asking her if she wanted to join us if she looked lonely and I'd probably be ok with that--I know how much it sucks being lonely and if we could help someone to not feel that way, that would make me happy. Now if I wasn't there....whole different story :)
    bethany169

    Answer by bethany169 at 3:32 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • Well hell no I wouldn't! lol
    SuperrMommyy

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 3:28 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • no. Why lead her on?
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 3:28 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • Uh...Nope, that would not happen!
    saysha100687

    Answer by saysha100687 at 3:29 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • I would hope that the tought wouldn't even cross my husband's mind!
    daisyb

    Answer by daisyb at 3:32 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • I would not have to let or not let my husband buy a drink for a girl at a bar because I married a man that isn't stupid enough to even think about it!
    Orionsgirl

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 3:33 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • i turst my man and i know he aint going no where and if hes gonna cheat hes gonna cheat. if you try to stop him he will only have more desire i think so anyway. i think if the girl looked really upset and looked as if she needed one then yes he could as long as he sent it over there not personally delievered it. it may sound like a contradiction of wat i said eariler but still...
    Tiffany_Rivera_

    Answer by Tiffany_Rivera_ at 3:34 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • Nope
    NicholeAT

    Answer by NicholeAT at 3:34 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • He wanted to be nice...I said no thats not your job. If he was nice to her then he needed to be nice to every lonely and sad woman we see...He only asked because 1) I carry the cash and 2) I carry the cash...LOL...I know it was a nice gesture but I am not one into giving out free drinks. Sorry.
    4_28_bbboy

    Comment by 4_28_bbboy (original poster) at 3:37 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

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