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What would you think if your partner has a fb and he requested an exgirlfriend?

My boyfriend well we are actually living together; has a facebook and he found out his ex-wife had a facebook and he requestd her... Wouldn't you see that wrong? They haven't talk since a long time. Cause it said awaiting request something like that. An he said it means he had send her a messege saying (girl you have change alot). So, when i told him why he requested her he goes is nothing wrong with that..But he did not firm that he requested her.

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galchik

Asked by galchik at 4:32 PM on Oct. 14, 2010 in Relationships

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  • m so...my BF still has his ex as friends and talks to her. I don't care.
    BradenIsMySon

    Answer by BradenIsMySon at 4:32 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • He has... And she accepted... I am FB Friends with my ex's too... No big deal.
    SabrinaMBowen

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 4:33 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • I would be pissed because he would freak if I added an ex boyfriend. as for your situation Well if it's his ex wife and they have kids I see no problem in it. You need to get use her being around if yo want to be with him.
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 4:33 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • personally i don't like it. but i had to hear about my hubby's ex's for a good while. plus my hubby has cheated before. so i'm not comfortable with that at all. but he is never actually on fb so he don't accept people.
    oldfashionSAHM

    Answer by oldfashionSAHM at 4:36 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • He has and I have ex boyfriends on there. No biggie. Most of them are married with kids.
    Izsarejman

    Answer by Izsarejman at 4:36 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • i think i would be upset too.
    anxious1stimer

    Answer by anxious1stimer at 4:37 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • My SO has his exwife on their and they ahve no kids together. I have exes on my account. I dont chat with them much but they are freinds with my friends.
    ria7

    Answer by ria7 at 4:38 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • I would have a problem with that. We have had some relationship issues recently and something like this almost ended my marriage. There is a reason she is the EX wife! No need to kepp it going KWIM?
    kjbennett26

    Answer by kjbennett26 at 4:46 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • May be he just wants to clear the air with her. Or just be friends. Dont worry about the small stuff.
    M.O.MLePone

    Answer by M.O.MLePone at 4:47 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

  • My hubby has exs on his FB, it's no big deal.
    scout_mom

    Answer by scout_mom at 4:50 PM on Oct. 14, 2010

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