I have been in an amazing relationship for almost 2 yrs, i have a 3 y/o & he has a 5 y/o. We both have sole custody of our children. The Bio MoM in this case has only seen the child a month out of 5 yrs. She has never been to where we live to see her son & has never come to get him from us for visitation. In the last 18 months she has seen him less than 2 weeks, & never any longer for 2-3 days at a time. Shes always giving excuses when we make plans for her to have her son, & they always fall thru, something always comes up on her end & she cant do it. Shes constantly giving me grief, "that Im not HER SONS MOTHER" I am nice to her, I let him use my phone to call, i send her pics & vids & try to keep her updated, but it never seems good enuf for her, she turns it around that its not my job if shes upset. But when she is happy, she is fine talking to me. I am so lost on what to do in this situation.Answer Question
Answer by CassyzMom at 4:58 AM on Oct. 15, 2010
Answer by louise2 at 5:55 AM on Oct. 15, 2010
Answer by Moms_Angels1960 at 6:24 AM on Oct. 15, 2010
Just keep being nice and friendly with her. These are her issues, not yours.
Answer by RyansMom001 at 6:32 AM on Oct. 15, 2010
Answer by cornflakegirl3 at 7:01 AM on Oct. 15, 2010
I don't think I'd be pushing a relationship with "your son" and this woman. I also feel she is unstable and would worry about the little guy when he's with her. I would be cordial, compliant in getting him ready for visits, but wouldn't go the extra mile that you are, she sure isn't appreciating it nor do I think deserving of it. Your a nice lady to do what you do to keep him in her life, but don't overdo. By all means I agree with the ones that say let you DH do the communicating with her.
Answer by zbee at 8:03 AM on Oct. 15, 2010
Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 8:04 AM on Oct. 15, 2010
Answer by mmmegan38 at 9:23 AM on Oct. 15, 2010
Answer by 2lilbumblebees at 9:40 AM on Oct. 15, 2010