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how do i spice up our sex life?

my boyfriend and i really don't "see" each other when he comes home, and when we do spend time together it's not what i wanted but i don't want to say anything to get him upset, we tried all the positions in the books we bought everything, now we are getting bored again, is there anything we can do to make it better even if its just for a few minutes?

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simpson1

Asked by simpson1 at 9:21 AM on Oct. 15, 2010 in Relationships

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  • play the role game. use your imagination.
    canta1980

    Answer by canta1980 at 10:44 AM on Oct. 15, 2010

  • Wow, you've done all that and you're still bored? I got nothing for ya, sorry. Maybe just slow down and enjoy each other?
    MeandMyBabes

    Answer by MeandMyBabes at 12:42 PM on Oct. 15, 2010

  • well i am 24 and my bf is 41 so i am wanting to try something he hasnt done before but we both have done everything we can think of.
    simpson1

    Comment by simpson1 (original poster) at 1:31 PM on Oct. 15, 2010

  • different things work for different people...go to a bar and act single, flirt a bit with other people, then go to a hotel like you're hooking up for a one night stand...bring the girl of YOUR choice in the bed room with you and YOU get to make all the rules (like u are always the center of attention)...go to a strip club together and get him to buy YOU a lapdance...get creative.
    LoriaAnn

    Answer by LoriaAnn at 2:51 PM on Oct. 15, 2010

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