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IF..or does your partner watch porn does it bother you /would it bother you and why?


Asked by gracelessstar21 at 7:53 PM on Oct. 15, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Not at all! I watch too... often with him.. but we both watch without each other too. As far as I'm concerned... who cares?? I know he loves me just as much as I love him. We both have a healthy appetite for sex and a healthy respect for sex and an even more healthy respect for each other. It's all good, there's trust, respect, admiration and if I do say so myself.. we both have a phenomenal sense of humor.... what else could one want or need??


    Answer by FeelinYummy at 8:18 PM on Oct. 15, 2010

  • If he did it would bother me. He's supposed to get his sexual needs met by me - I am his wife.

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 7:57 PM on Oct. 15, 2010

  • I don't care if he watches/reads/looks at porn. I'm not comfortable with clubs though... I think I can sperate myself from the fact the people in the magazines are real where as the ones in clubs are fully accessible. It has nothing to do with trust either. I know there is no way DH would ever touch another woman or cheat on me. I dunno. weird hang up I guess.

    Answer by But_Mommie at 7:56 PM on Oct. 15, 2010

  • Not at all, I encourage him to watch it!

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 8:00 PM on Oct. 15, 2010

  • hey if I had sex with him everytime he wanted it I'd NEVER get anything done lol. If he wants to look no biggy to me I'm the one here that he will get his "fancy" done with in the end.... And, I'm secure enough with myself to not let who he's looking at bug me either.

    Answer by starlight1968 at 8:20 PM on Oct. 15, 2010

  • It don't bother me if he did I would rather him watch porn then go out and cheat

    Answer by Darla47 at 7:54 PM on Oct. 15, 2010

  • My SO does not look at porn at least not to my knowledge but no it would not bother me as sometimes I watch porn to get ideas to try

    Answer by gratefulangel77 at 8:23 PM on Oct. 15, 2010

  • I've tried not to let it bother me but it does very much so. I do not mind doing it together though. I have no idea why.

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:49 PM on Oct. 15, 2010

  • My fiance does and it really doesn't bother me. He loves and respects me, and we have a healthy and faithful intimate life, so I don't have an issue with it. I'm not at all crazy about clubs, but I still don't mind him going if it's for a bachelor party, etc. as long as he doesn't touch.

    Answer by KA91 at 8:55 PM on Oct. 15, 2010

  • It bothers me when I'm not there. I'd like to watch it together. He'd rather watch it himself.

    Answer by CarlyCo at 7:54 PM on Oct. 15, 2010