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HOW did you survive terrible 2s????

 
sassy_brizzy

Asked by sassy_brizzy at 2:33 PM on Oct. 16, 2010 in Toddlers (1-2)

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  • My DS has been throwing tantrums since before he turned one, but they're not usually the manipulative type of tantrums (or they've only recently become that type too). They are usually meltdowns or emotional floods, and I can't just ignore those to make him stop like the other type because he can't seem to calm himself down. He will go on for 45 minutes or more at times and he's so intense that I'm afraid he's going to hurt himself thrashing around--sometimes he'll accept comforting or help calming down, sometimes not. I usually just have to ride it out, and keep trying to calm him down. Those are the hardest in my opinion, but the manipulative ones can usually be handled by ignoring them, time outs, or distraction depending on the circumstances. It has improved some since he talks more now, but when he's flooded he still can't get the words to tell me what's wrong. I'm just hope it will get better soon too! Good luck!
    pam19

    Answer by pam19 at 3:04 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • I'd like to know this too. LOL
    pam19

    Answer by pam19 at 2:34 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • I got lucky. My DD wasn't so terrible when she was two. Now three...she has thrown a few temper tantrums so far, but they're very rare.
    GinNTonic

    Answer by GinNTonic at 2:34 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • I had twin so I had 2 that where at the stage of life. I had a little helper. My oldesr son was 6 and he would help me chase them down
    HomeAlone45

    Answer by HomeAlone45 at 2:41 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • I just dont know how to handle these temper tantrums... mine is a boy with a bad temper.
    sassy_brizzy

    Comment by sassy_brizzy (original poster) at 2:43 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • If you think it is bad now. Wait until they are teens. lol
    HomeAlone45

    Answer by HomeAlone45 at 2:44 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • ive always walked away from my DS when he throws a tantrum...i tell him when he is ready we can talk about it...he rarely has them anymore
    coolchic320

    Answer by coolchic320 at 2:49 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • Deep breaths.
    CarlyCo

    Answer by CarlyCo at 3:15 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • It wasn't terrible 2's I had to survive, it was terrible 3's! And honestly, I'm still not sure how I survived it. Maybe because I had lots of help and support from my husband and friends.
    Eviesmommy

    Answer by Eviesmommy at 7:05 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • My daughter just turned 2yrs old and im just getting a taste of it! ugh its hard! i willlet you know when I figure it out myself lol.
    xtatianax

    Answer by xtatianax at 2:26 AM on Oct. 17, 2010

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