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have you gained or lost weight since you 1st got with your SO? Does he mind?

I have gained 40lbs since we 1st got together. Im sure he found me more attractive w the less weight but he doesnt seem to really mind. He has gained about 40 also haha.


Asked by sassy_brizzy at 2:35 PM on Oct. 16, 2010 in Relationships

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  • gained at first because we were expecting then lost a lot after our daughter was born still and then gained again when we were expecting again and have been trying to loose since D was born almost 6 months ago...DH said he doesnt mind because it is all a part of being a mommy...He does hate it when I complain about my weight...and the word Fat is considered a cuss word in our family and if he hears anyone including myself, and our daughters even say the word he goes nutzo...he said no one is Fat and it should not be used to describe anyone..

    Answer by 4_28_bbboy at 2:58 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • Lost, and no, he couldn't care less...

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 2:42 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • I gained an entire 100 pounds. He never said a word or acted any differently. The down side is that I lost the weight recently and he didn't say anything about that either.

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 2:44 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • That is great you lost weight Orionsgirl. Congrats!!!

    Comment by sassy_brizzy (original poster) at 2:45 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • Before we had kids I was 110, after two I'm 124. He doesn't seem to care. But he himself went from 155 two 245. So he can't really say a lot, lol.

    Answer by Amelia512 at 2:50 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • lol

    Comment by sassy_brizzy (original poster) at 2:51 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • oops to. not two. I have no idea how my fingers got that in. haha

    Answer by Amelia512 at 2:55 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • I have gain a little. My hubbie don't mind

    Answer by HomeAlone45 at 3:08 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • I had gained a whole lot of weight at one point and time in our marriage.. (about 100lbs).. It never bothered my husband. He could have cared less. he still loved me, wanted me, found me just as sexy/attractive as ever.

    Sadly though.. I did not feel that way about myself. And My own feelings about myself, and how I handles those feelings, caused many problems in my marriage.. I caused a chasm between us, I pushed my husband away, I treated him/reacted to him as if he felt the same way about "me" as I did myself.. I did such a disservice to him during that time period.

    Answer by pixie_trix at 4:11 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • i gained and lost and he never said a word always tells me i am beautiful everyday

    Answer by tomcatsbabygirl at 4:16 PM on Oct. 16, 2010