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did you marry/commit to your 'physically ideal' man? (or woman, as the case may be.)

 
dullscissors

Asked by dullscissors at 3:18 PM on Oct. 16, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Nope.
    IhartU

    Answer by IhartU at 3:27 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • I did look at the physically aspect. I thought I married the man that was ideal to me but he just proved me I was wrong today......
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 3:20 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • Yes. I have to admit I'm a bit shallow and I could not fall in love with somebody who wasn't physically very attractive to me. Luckily my husband is gorgeous and a great guy.
    Orionsgirl

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 3:20 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • Not really. But I'm happy anyway. I wish he were in better shape for his health though.
    CarlyCo

    Answer by CarlyCo at 3:22 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • Pretty much. He had a nice athletic body when we met, but now he's a bit chubby. But the same with me, I wasn't ms floppy lower belly when we first met either. We're 'growing' together nicely hahaha!
    Nanixh

    Answer by Nanixh at 3:30 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • SO is hefty, but it's more to love lol. I was first attracted to him by his personality and smile
    Owl_Feather

    Answer by Owl_Feather at 3:35 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • Yes I did. He was just the right height and build.....and for the most part, he still is......a little more belly, but then I have a little more too. After 23 years, I definitely still find him attractive.

    I have to admit though that looks aren't enough. He's intelligent, funny and an all around good guy, or I wouldn't have been attracted to him in the first place.
    ohwrite

    Answer by ohwrite at 3:57 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • i certainly didn't. he's the polar opposite, except for the height. and for the life of me, i can't imagine he did, either. even though i've gained 20lbs since we met, he still tells me i have the best legs..first thing he noticed about me on our first date! he's always liked dark-haired girls..so i got that part right! LOL!

    dullscissors

    Comment by dullscissors (original poster) at 3:36 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • I joke about this all the time. I'm usually attracted to men with dark, long hair. My husband is bald. And we he does let his hair grow out, it's lighter than I usually go for. But, build wise, I prefer my men to have a little meat on their body, which he does, and I'm happy as long as they're taller than me (I'm 5'11"), which he is.
    Eviesmommy

    Answer by Eviesmommy at 6:51 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • Yes. He's the right height, bald, his a nice butt, he's totally built like i like. My first husband was short and pugg,but cute, and I couldn't ever wear high hills like I wanted to cuz he felt uncomfortable.
    mrs2323

    Answer by mrs2323 at 9:39 PM on Oct. 16, 2010