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what do you wish you'd learned before getting married?

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Asked by lovinangels at 8:21 PM on Oct. 16, 2010 in Relationships

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  • i really can't think of anything. Looking back over the years, the only thing I can think of that I would change is the way we got married. I wish we had eloped.

    Answer by JulieJacobKyle at 8:25 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • How to keep a cleaner house. I come from a long line of bad house keepers. We're not hoarders bad or anything like that. We just suck at dusting, baseboards, windows etc.

    Answer by vicki77433 at 8:28 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • Vicki... Are you my sister? (lmao... I do have a sister named Vicky)

    I agree! I wish I learned to be a better housekeeper and organizer.

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 8:29 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • Well I was going to say I wish I knew what a huge slob my DH is.. But if its about US.. I wish I knew how to cook. No one taught me, so its a learning process.. A slow one at that..

    Answer by Amelia512 at 8:50 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • I have learned over the years that there are no shoulda woulda couldas and that we are always learning....

    Answer by Anna92464 at 8:53 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • this is too funny.. bc i wish i learned how much my hubby would leave for me to do (SLOB) lol.. how to be a better house cleaner.. how to cook.. my mom tried to teach me but i was never interested.. which i hate cooking so i still am not but i will cook for my family.. and they BETTER like it. lol.. for real the ONE THING i really wish i learned before i got married would be..that my in laws would be in our lives DAILY.... too much.. they never really were a big part of our daily/weekly lives before we got married but once we started planning the wedding they have been an everyday thing from then on. i wish i would have known this.. cause is drives me NUTS. i would have INSISTED that we live waaaaaaaay more than 5 min away

    Answer by Ross2010 at 9:03 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • I wish I learned to better compromise and argue more logically and effectively instead of screaming my point across. Boy did that cause some rough times. (He should've learned this too.)

    Answer by donnareedonLSD at 9:09 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • That my husband had a sort temper, that he is a self center child the puts himself and his wants before his family....

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 9:29 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • how much he would change in 10 years. And how much he would try to destroy me. I will NEVER get married again.

    Answer by Luckybear05 at 10:30 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • My fiance and I have been living together for 3 years now so when we get married in a couple years, there wont be much that suprises me.

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 12:38 AM on Oct. 17, 2010

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