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why do people thinks sex is a problem solver in relationships adult content

It's not. After all that huffing and puffing the issues that you have are still there so why do people thing that is the advice your supposed to give ie

get sexy for your husband
have candle light dinners

when there has been a issue...Like sex isn't going to do anything and in some cases it can make the problem worse so why then give that kinda advice.


Asked by sierra_617 at 8:39 PM on Oct. 16, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (10)
  • Because it is the easy answer. Generally when you talk about a bad marriage it is impossible to give all the details, so people try to give the generic answer.

    Of course sex is not always the answer to all the problems in a marriage, but it does work for some problems, so that is why it is given as a solution.

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 8:42 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • Because sex is a beautiful language your bodies speak to each other that bonds you and can remind you how much you love each is a way to take care of each other and heal each other....yes, talking and resolving your problems are important, but sex can be part of helping you work together to do is the language of love.......


    Answer by Anna92464 at 8:48 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • Sex doesn't solve everything but sometimes it does calm people so that they can clear the air and talk about things.

    Answer by bjane01 at 9:00 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • It's my husbands only answer...... Anytime we have an issue he just goes we need to just figure out new things to do in the bedroom... ah no. We need to TALK and discuss other ways around our issues not just jump in the sack and hope it goes away.

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 9:27 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • because supposedly men bond emotionally after sex and maybe that makes them stay around long enough to fix the other problems... just a guess

    Answer by NaiveDream at 8:46 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • Because sex brings people closer. It's easier to feel close to and connected to your partner when you're having sex. Sometimes it's easier to communicate with your partner after having sex. And reconnecting with romance really can help solve problems.

    Anna, I loved your answer. You're completely right.

    Answer by Ati_13 at 8:59 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • no if something is on my mind and we need to talk and he just wants sex it is not going to be a wonderful time it is going to be ...a lets get this over kinda time and there will be resentment on my part and confusion on his

    Answer by wheresthewayout at 9:50 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • sex only puts off the issues you may have. imo

    Answer by Luckybear05 at 10:08 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • i know but it feels so good LOL

    Answer by sunflower39346 at 12:47 AM on Oct. 17, 2010

  • I thought sex was usually a MAN's answer to everything !!

    Answer by JustMyOpinion22 at 6:19 AM on Oct. 17, 2010