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If you found out your child had been molested, would you allow them to speak to police or doctors without you in the room?

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Asked by SabrinaMBowen at 9:47 PM on Oct. 16, 2010 in Parenting Debate

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  • i would some times they speak out more with out parent being present

    Answer by sandi_361 at 9:49 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • Maybe in a room with a huge oneway mirror.

    Answer by dancinintherain at 9:51 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • Hell no! you better with them all the time. I would just stand behind them so they can speak freely.

    Answer by gammie at 9:52 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • Yes.

    Answer by DonnaPinitonya at 9:52 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • it depends on the age of the child and if they wanted to, but generally speaking , yes

    Answer by gypsymama532 at 9:53 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • No I want to be in the room with them. I'm sure they are scared and they need someone familiar with them so they know they aren't the ones in trouble.

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 9:53 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • Ohhhh that's a tough one!! I think I would if it were one of those rooms where it has the "mirror" in it so I could watch the whole thing. Makes me sad to even think about!!! :o(

    Answer by alyssamal at 9:55 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • I'd ask my child if they wanted me in their or not. If not then I would respect their wishes but let them know I'm here for them. They might just be more comfortable talking to what happened to them without their parents present. I know having to talk about what happened to me as a little girl was uncomfortable in front of my mom.

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 9:56 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • tough one. It would be up to my child. But i would want to know all that is being said, so there better be a one way mirror or a tape recorder being used.

    Answer by MissAlisabeth at 9:57 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • No way. After my child had been through so much I would not abandon them, which is how it would feel to the child.

    Answer by scout_mom at 10:05 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

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