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How do you know a man is a player?

Yes,this is a stupid question.How do you know a man is a player?Why do men want to be players?

 
alisha34886

Asked by alisha34886 at 11:12 PM on Oct. 16, 2010 in Relationships

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  • There are a lot of reasons why a man is a player. Some reasons can be that he is afraid of commitment, he doesn't want to commit due to being "free" and having fun, etc. Signs that he is a player are that he won't commit, he gets into a relationship and still flirts or skirts around with other women, or he is a tease. By a tease I mean he leads women on to either just sleep with them or simply just to toy with their hearts.
    JazzlikeMraz

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 11:29 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • All men are players, they are sex craved, it's in their blood.
    QandA

    Answer by QandA at 11:15 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • Sometimes you don't know right away. If you suspect you are being played, take it slow and start keeping track of his stories so you know if you are being lied to. Trust your gut instinct, it will guide you. Not all men want a relationship and being players allows them to walk away when they want to.
    CorrinaWithrow

    Answer by CorrinaWithrow at 11:17 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • I feel like players are men who think they can find this amazing woman that knocks their socks off for years and everyday feels like the first date. However, when trying to do this they hop from one women to the next and when the newness wears off their gone. OR they keep several women or even just 2 because when one is boring they can go to the other lol.

    You can sense a player ... they have a hard time making a committed date, they say "maybe" a lot, and always always guard their phones.
    kaylan010

    Answer by kaylan010 at 11:17 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • If he doesn't seem genuine, if he is shady or suspiciously has too many excuses. Don't give him sex and if he is a player he won't be able to play you.
    JackieGirl007

    Answer by JackieGirl007 at 11:19 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

  • there are always red flags but some of us choose to ignore them. i.e. cellphone ringing all the time and they won't answer in front of us. not returning our calls a lot, coming up with excuses as to why you can't come over, etc.
    anxious1stimer

    Answer by anxious1stimer at 11:22 PM on Oct. 16, 2010

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