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Do you and your spouse talk about sex? adult content


Asked by pinkdragon36 at 3:20 PM on Oct. 17, 2010 in Relationships

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  • All the time.

    We are both learned many years ago. That the 1 MUST in order for us to have a sex life that is pleasurable, fulfilling and satisfying for BOTH of us is by having open, honest and safe sexual communication. The only way he knows my needs/wants/desires/fantasies etc.. is by me telling him..(and vice a versa).. We have to talk about sex in order to have a good sex life.. So yes, we talk about sex almost everyday, in one capacity or another.. Sex is one of the prime basic parts of our relationship, we work to keep it healthy just like we work to keep the other parts healthy.

    Answer by pixie_trix at 3:37 PM on Oct. 17, 2010

  • Yeah, but it's a fairly recent development for us. We've been married for three years (well, Friday will be 3 years) and we could talk about it before, but now we've finally gotten to the point where we can talk openly about our wants and desires, etc.

    Answer by Mrs.BAT at 3:30 PM on Oct. 17, 2010

  • We used to, in the early days when our relationship became serious. Open communication about sex is good between couples, since no one is a mind reader.

    Answer by RubyinPA at 3:30 PM on Oct. 17, 2010

  • we do on occasions talk about it and see what we want to try or not try

    Answer by diana398 at 3:31 PM on Oct. 17, 2010

  • sure, all the time. what we would like, what we may want to do later.

    Answer by ItsMe89 at 4:53 PM on Oct. 17, 2010

  • not so much. Just occasional verbal rain checks & I.O.U's...... and sporadic rude comments to one another about how its the other persons fault. I gave up years ago, it doesn't matter to me anymore. We're so incompatible in that dept. anyway, why talk about it and risk fighting

    Answer by hibbingmom at 4:52 PM on Oct. 17, 2010

  • yes,

    Answer by Bubbie0809 at 5:03 PM on Oct. 17, 2010

  • yes all the time its a healthy thing

    Answer by cnoble927 at 5:26 PM on Oct. 17, 2010

  • Of course!  We talk about anything and everything.


    Answer by beeky at 6:36 PM on Oct. 17, 2010

  • All the time.

    Answer by bjane01 at 6:47 PM on Oct. 17, 2010