Hello, im a new user i thought id start here, My 4 yr old has this big problem with not listing etc. which i know is normal at that age and always will be, But she does things she knows shes not supposed to do, and whnever i confront her about it she doesn't tell me why she tells me "bc i wansn't supposed to".. but my thing is i get so frustrated and sometimes i think im yelling at her when honestly im just talking firm towards her, sometimes i feel bad. Is there any ideas out there how i can communicate with her without sounding mean? Because she says things after i yell or talk firmly like " mommy why aren't you happy or don't you love me"? It breaks my heart. I don't spoil her or let her get away with things, i punish her the right way i just need to know how i can communicate in ways she can understand and with me sounding like im yelling.
any ideas or suggestions would be appreciated. thanks guys!
Answer by Mom2Jack04 at 1:01 PM on Oct. 18, 2010
Answer by Bmat at 1:05 PM on Oct. 18, 2010
Answer by _Tam_ at 2:08 PM on Oct. 18, 2010
Answer by BigfordBrat at 3:52 PM on Oct. 18, 2010
Answer by J-M at 6:11 PM on Oct. 18, 2010