We are working on getting our parenting plan filed with the courts. I had it written up that he wold have him everyother weekend for a few hours on Saturday and a few hours on Sunday (as he rents a room in his aunt's basement, I don't want him there overnight). Overnights would begin at age 2, where he'd have him every other weekend Saturday morning until Sunday evening (he doesn't want him Fridays due to his work schedule). At age 2 he'd also get him for 2 nonconsecutive weeks every summer. The holidays are split 50/50 and rotate each year.
He told me he would agree to this plan as I had it written if I moved the date overnights to age 1 and didn't leave the child support up to the state but would agree to accept $200 a month (this doesn't include paying for any of the medical, and I currently have over $2000 in outstanding medical bills).
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I would ask for the $400 then, not $200, if you dont want to go through the courts, make sure everything is documented and have it notarized (sp?). Make sure its all laid out to the T so there is no misunderstandings later one. I would even make a calender of the next two years, of dates he is going to have your child and times for pick up and drop off.
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