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Should I try to talk to my mom about moving in with my fiance?

It would be better because he would be able to help me with his daughter and also there is just too many people in my house... However I am only 16 almost 17 and I do not think that she will allow me to/

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ilovemichael

Asked by ilovemichael at 3:54 PM on Jul. 3, 2008 in Relationships

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  • IMO...you emancipated yourself from your parents when you had a baby. Your moms opinion shouldn't matter. Your a grown woman now.
    Navy_Wife_Tisha

    Answer by Navy_Wife_Tisha at 4:08 PM on Jul. 3, 2008

  • I would talk to her about it. You want to keep an open line of communication with her.
    Brenna

    Answer by Brenna at 4:13 PM on Jul. 3, 2008

  • yes talk with her; however, know that the first poster is correct. You are an emancipated minor and she has no real say so over what you do. It would be nice to have her blessing though. You never know when you might need your mom.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 9:32 PM on Jul. 3, 2008

  • It would be good to get your mom's opinion. She might have her own plan about what you could do if you stayed at home with her.
    TXdanielly

    Answer by TXdanielly at 10:22 PM on Jul. 3, 2008

  • just go to your mom and state your concerns and listen to hers. you are a mom now. you want your child to listen to you, so start by example. i don't kwno what objections your mom would have, but what is the worst that could happen? you'd get preggo/ wait, been there, done that...seriously, discuss it then do what you feel is best for your child as that's where your responsibility lies now.
    princezzmommie

    Answer by princezzmommie at 11:06 PM on Jul. 3, 2008

  • There are so many things you are still too young to do on your own, you can't buy your own a car without your parents get involved. You can't get a credit card without them co-sign it. Keep your mother in your life because she is going to be the one there for you anytime anywhere.
    yoshiki56

    Answer by yoshiki56 at 10:40 PM on Jul. 4, 2008

  • in most steas if you have had a child you are a legal adult and dont need her permission....but be careful before burning bridges you might need to cross later....google emancipation laws in your state
    LoriaAnn

    Answer by LoriaAnn at 5:53 PM on Jul. 5, 2008

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