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anyone else have a father in law that stares?

mostly he's got no common sense, but my FIL loves to stare at breasts. I used to be majorly stacked before I had a reduction and his eyes always went straight for them, and stayed there.

I'm sill big busted, and he's not as bad at he used to be, but sometimes I'd like to tell him 'hey, my eyes are up HERE!' :p
anyone else have a relative that does that?

 
ItsMe89

Asked by ItsMe89 at 9:37 AM on Oct. 19, 2010 in Relationships

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  • My FIL does not stare at breasts. He plays golf and hangs out with his grandkids...
    Orionsgirl

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 9:41 AM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • He does not stare at my breasts, but he does stare at me. Our whole wedding, he just sat there & stared at me the whole time. It was very creepy, especially when i was dancing. He does it more when he's been drinking. I'm hoping he is just spacing out & not thinking gross things...lol~
    samurai_chica

    Answer by samurai_chica at 9:40 AM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • Yes. I don't talk to my husbands step-father anymore though (major drama happened) so I don't have that problem anymore.
    VeggieMuslima

    Answer by VeggieMuslima at 9:40 AM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • No but my friends husband does it all the time. I don't really care as long as he doesn't touch.
    royal13

    Answer by royal13 at 9:41 AM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • not really, but sometimes if they are there for him to look at you can't blame him..can you? My neighbor came over the other day and her tits were hanging out and i couldnt take my eyes off those things...i'm sure she could help it if she wanted to. I mean, i have big ones and i don't let them fall all over the place like that. ......my dh did tell me once that he saw his dad checking out my tattoo on my lower back. I wasnt weirded out by it though.
    shay1130

    Answer by shay1130 at 9:42 AM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • No. My fil is like a perfect gentleman. Better than my man.
    mamacita69930

    Answer by mamacita69930 at 9:47 AM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • no, they were not hanging out. and even if they were, yes I can blame him and anyone else for staring.
    this is the definition of harassment.
    ItsMe89

    Comment by ItsMe89 (original poster) at 9:50 AM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • someone looking is not harrassment
    shay1130

    Answer by shay1130 at 9:53 AM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • comments and touching would be harrassment
    shay1130

    Answer by shay1130 at 9:54 AM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • No... but I had a disgusting uncle that made a comment about my lesbian sister and her girlfriend that about sent my dad over the Thanksgiving table.

    WTF!?!
    Niki_sd

    Answer by Niki_sd at 9:54 AM on Oct. 19, 2010

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