What would you like to ask them carrirlane?
Will you be asking them questions in email, or meeting them in person?
I kind of get the feel you're worried about those silent pauses in your conversation when neither of you can think of something to say?
It's ok if that happens. But i know it can be uncomfortable. If you're meeting them face to face, what my sibs and I did was plan an activity together for the day. We did tourist things, went to the zoo, did one of those duck tours of the city, ect. We were together, having a good time, but doing something (looking at the sights) and that took some of the pressure off having a discussion without knowing what to say to each other.
Ask them to pull out the old photo albums for you to see. Bring an album of your pics as you were growing up for them to see too.
I'll look around and see if I can find some of those survey games we would send back and forth to each other.
at 6:31 PM on Oct. 19, 2010