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My fiance has never danced with me bu I just found out from one of his co workers that he danced with her last christmas should that bother me?

We have been together almost 3 years and never 1 dance. I ask but he says no

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jessesmama22

Asked by jessesmama22 at 1:20 PM on Oct. 19, 2010 in Relationships

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  • It would bother me.
    Shanna84

    Answer by Shanna84 at 1:20 PM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • If you've asked and he said no but danced with her then yes I think it would bother me. Have you asked him why he won't dance with you but danced with her?
    jessicarae787

    Answer by jessicarae787 at 1:21 PM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • I would be fuming
    MelSwim7

    Answer by MelSwim7 at 1:24 PM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • ya but he wont give me an answer
    jessesmama22

    Comment by jessesmama22 (original poster) at 1:24 PM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • Don't worry about it.
    rain408

    Answer by rain408 at 1:25 PM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • yes that would make me mad. especially since he won't give you a reason for it.
    gulfcoastmom4

    Answer by gulfcoastmom4 at 1:25 PM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • What were the circumstances? Was it a company Christmas party? Were they drunk? Just based on what you said, I wouldn't worry about it. There are bigger things in life to worry about. If your relationship is rocky enough for this to upset you, seems to me that you have bigger issues than one dance.
    hobbitswife04

    Answer by hobbitswife04 at 1:38 PM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • I wouldnt make it a big thing but yes it would bother me a little.
    EarthMama05

    Answer by EarthMama05 at 1:45 PM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • He'd be on my shitlist for sure.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:56 PM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • my guess is that there's a reason for it that he thinks maybe would hurt your feelings.
    are you taller than him? are you not that great of a dancer? *sorry*!

    maybe if you dropped it about the co-worker, then tried to get him to take lessons.

    if he says no, and he still won't talk about it, I'd let it go.
    just know that he loves you either way :)
    ItsMe89

    Answer by ItsMe89 at 2:04 PM on Oct. 19, 2010

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