My husband's daughter's mother still acts like she cares about him and they never were a couple. She always uses their daughter against him because she doesn't get any of his time for herself. I almost boxed her the other day because I've had about enough of her lip service and I'm supposed to be a Christian! It's so-------------- hard!!
At some point, they had some kind of a relationship, because they have a child together. Maybe she does still have feelings for him. That's not unheard of. Should she be trying to get time with him for herself, no. However, I think you need to just tell her that you don't appreciate what she is doing, and while you want things to go smoothly because of the child, she is making it very hard on all of you. Explain that this needs to stop, and she shouldn't be using the child as a pawn in her childish games. If they don't have a set visitation agreement with the courts, I suggest your husband gets one, so that it makes it easier when it comes to him seeing his child. Someone needs to be the adult in this situation, so it might as well be you.
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