ok so my husbands ex... the girl he dated before we got together... shes a real sweet girl.. but the other day i got on the comp to check something and when i turned the screen on .. his email was up... and as I was going to exit it.. i saw a msg from her.. his ex.. someone he hasnt spoken to in over 3 years.. i saw that is was a reply msg.. and i saw both ends of the conversation.. he sent her a birthday wish.. blah blah blah and at the end it said.. i will always think the absolute best of you.. ok no big deal.. but it kind of struck me bc we have had a lot of tension btw us lately due to his parents not respecting me and him not standing up for me.. now i am not one to keep it to myself.. so i casually said i went to check my FB but your email was up.. saw youve been talking to michelle.. he said yea i sent her a birthday msg like a month ago.. OK.. it was sent like the day before.. wth? why lie.. and then CONTINUED
Answer by AshleyBishop06 at 7:06 PM on Oct. 19, 2010
You've mentioned two different times you "wish" you would have said something or you "thought" about saying something. My advice is sit down with him and SAY these things to him. He needs to know how you feel and you need a good explanation for what is going on. Don't jump to conclusions just yet, but don't keep your feelings and questions bottled up inside.
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Answer by ryanlynn at 5:03 PM on Oct. 19, 2010
I think you are thinking to much about this. So he sent her a birthday email. Big deal. That doesn't mean anything. Now if he had said in the email "I love you, can't wait to see you this weekend" I'd be a little more inclined to think there was something shady going on. Sounds like it was just an innocent email. Who cares when it was sent.
I would just let it go if I was you, and focus on the bigger things in your life.
Answer by Punky_1981 at 6:31 PM on Oct. 19, 2010