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Would you?

Would you keep a distance from a man if that man made your husband uncomfortable. You know nothing will happen and even your husband believes that but there is something about this man (lets say he is a coworker of yours) that makes him uneasy. Would you keep then your relationship with your coworker strictly about work???


Asked by whoreallycares at 5:43 PM on Oct. 19, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (20)
  • absolutely! my relationship with my man is much more important than any other (except my DD of course)

    Answer by stressedmomma13 at 2:43 AM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • Yes, my relationship with my dh is more important, as long my dh isn't overly jealous or possessive  I would keep some distance for my coworker.


    Answer by RyansMom001 at 5:46 PM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • Yes. My husband is more important to me. My relationship with my husband is more important to me. Why would I want to cause unnecessary problems with him over another man?

    Answer by Raine2001 at 5:47 PM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • Not all men have a hard time understanding it. I think it's something a couple should discuss and come to an agreement about so they are on the same page and can respect each other and their feelings.

    Answer by MeandMyBabes at 6:13 PM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • If my husband was uncomfortable, I'd stay away from the other man. That's just me.

    Answer by duckigrrl at 7:37 PM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • Me personally.

    Yes.. I would keep my distance and keep my relationship as absolutely business only as possible.

    If I had issues/misgivings/uncomfortable feelings in regards to a female coworke and I expressed my feelings. I would expect my husband to respect me and my feelings enough to keekp the relationship ans business only as he possibly could.

    Answer by pixie_trix at 7:42 PM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • Yep.

    Answer by Anna92464 at 7:54 PM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • Yes-if my DH felt uncomfortable with someone I know (male or female) I would do what I can to make him happy-he is my husband and sometimes his intuition is better than mine!


    Answer by 4_28_bbboy at 9:26 PM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • Absolutely. My dh has never made such a request, so if he said it he must have a good reason.

    Answer by Austinsmom35 at 9:56 PM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • yes i would keep my distance from this man because my hubby comes first. i would try to put myself in his shoes. what if he has a female friend that makes me uncomfortable for what ever reason (even though nothing is going on between them) and he does not want to pull away from her then that would make be begin to get suspicious ;; because i would start to think what is so great about their friendship.?? just look at it from his angle for a minute.

    Answer by maya123 at 11:47 PM on Oct. 19, 2010