Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

6 Bumps

My boyfriend has recently taken up this thing that during sex he doesnt want to use protection and he doesn't want me to take birth control because he "likes the thrill" How can I tell him that he's an idiot nicely?

Answer Question

Asked by Anonymous at 11:40 PM on Oct. 19, 2010 in General Parenting

Answers (24)
  • Freakin' tell him to use protection and you need to use birth control!

    Answer by xxlilmomma09 at 11:41 PM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • 'Wrap it up or keep it packed up, bud.'

    There is biology at play, here. People, being animals with basic drives, have a very strong urge to procreate. It is difficult to fight that urge when faced with the cues of mating... in the throes of passion is a bad time to be making sensible decisions.

    Answer by LindaClement at 11:42 PM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • Ask if the thrill is just as great by himself cause with out protection the only thrill he will be getting is from his hand.

    Answer by Alanaplus3 at 11:46 PM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • I wouldn't have sex with him unless it's wrapped!

    Answer by emilex at 11:47 PM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • Are you the same person that asked how to ask your boyfriend nicely that you don't want to get pregnant? If so, grow up seriously. Find someone with a little more brains in his head, and stop worrying about how he's gonna feel about your lack of approval for his behavior. Be responsible. Adult things aren't to be sugar coated or babied.
    I apologize if this isn't the same person.

    Answer by Musicmom80 at 11:50 PM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • Ride with a helmet buddy, condoms are cheaper than college!!

    Answer by BabeeOnBoard at 11:53 PM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • Honestly I would just tell him he's an idiot.

    Answer by Christina807 at 11:53 PM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • Obviously it was...eyes rolling..

    Answer by Musicmom80 at 11:56 PM on Oct. 19, 2010

  • we are all women here , struggling with life musicmon why be a cow

    Answer by maymummy at 12:01 AM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • maymummy, if you don't like my answer move on. You obviously have no clue what I'm talking about. Hope you don't teach your kids that name calling is acceptable when you don't agree with someone! Bye now!

    Answer by Musicmom80 at 12:05 AM on Oct. 20, 2010

Join CafeMom now to contribute your answer and become part of our community. It's free and takes just a minute.