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not even interested???

ugh so i have been on bedrest for about 3 1/2 months.. and i havent been in the mood for some booty booty lately.. but tonight i was... i know that i cant have any.. but i still wanted to play around.... something.. and my husband doesnt even budge... he just shakes his head and says no... ???????????????? think its possible he is getting some relief elsewhere??? since he didnt even seem interested in fooling around..


Asked by Ross2010 at 1:16 AM on Oct. 20, 2010 in Relationships

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  • W/o any definitive proof/clues/hints of infidelity, I think he's just being protective and concerned for you.
    Sounds like a keeper. Don't worry, once you're clear to get busy again, he'll be more than interested,
    I assure you!

    Answer by LadyCash at 2:46 AM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • he's probably just worried about you, you should trust him. im sure hes only concerned with yours/babys safety

    Answer by meagan678 at 1:18 AM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • i think you should be happy that his thinking with his right head and not doing anything that can cause happy and proud not think the worst...if he did not care he would put HIS NEEDS 1st...and he is putting yours...


    Answer by iNk-FrEaK at 1:19 AM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • I would be hurt that he didn't offer any affection at all, but I wouldn't go straight to thinking he's getting relief elsewhere. Orgasms can still cause contractions, so if he's aware that even a little fooling around can affect baby then maybe that's why he turned it down.

    Answer by Ashes0813 at 4:43 AM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • give yourself some time i know i did because i was hurting down there with pain sex was even on my mind your body needs to heal

    Answer by mama2010B at 3:06 AM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • He's probably afraid to hurt you. Are you preggo? Alot of men are afraid of hurting the baby if they have sex with their pregnant SO.

    Answer by Shanna84 at 8:36 AM on Oct. 20, 2010

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