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would u stay with a man who u love even if he has cheated multiple times ?

but..... he provides financial security,no kids on either side, and u get to travel the world with him and u dont have to get a job ever if u dont want to. i am in this situation and i am gonna leave him but just want your opinions and views thats all.


Asked by maya123 at 1:27 AM on Oct. 20, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (18)
  • no way i will say bye bye bye...i am too full of myself to put up with that disrespect...

    Answer by iNk-FrEaK at 1:28 AM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • I would have too leave, if for no other reason than self respect

    Answer by dmbutler at 1:30 AM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • No. I would not.

    Answer by Razelda at 1:32 AM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • I personally would leave.

    Answer by TheThriftyMama at 2:23 AM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • You may have to get a job now and give up some things you've enjoyed but I think in the long run you will like it better because you will have your own self respect and be able to heal so that you can find someone who is going to treat you the way you want and deserve to be treated.

    Answer by Jezzeria at 9:03 AM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • i agree with u 100%

    Comment by maya123 (original poster) at 1:31 AM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • i would probably stay in that case...but i would almost certainly have someone on the side as well.

    Answer by LoriaAnn at 1:31 AM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • the thing about me is i would not be happy with having some other man on the side; i love exclusive relationships .they are more special than having a man here and less chance of catching a disease

    Comment by maya123 (original poster) at 1:35 AM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • Yeah, you are wise to leave. If you stay, then you're staying for the money and travel, etc. Good for you for standing up for yourself!

    Answer by musicpisces at 1:51 AM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • i would have to leave if theres no children or anything there is nothing keeping you there bt your love for him bt if he doesnt love you then theres no reason to waste your love on him!

    Answer by Jess122707 at 1:55 AM on Oct. 20, 2010

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