There's a man I've known for the past couple of months or so and I developed feelings for him pretty quickly and we lost touch for a little while but recently started talking again.
Well, he literally JUST got a girlfriend and he doesn't exactly sound thrilled about her, so my questions is, I just sat and typed out an email to him last night, telling him how I feel about him and why and I've been debating whether or not to even send it to him b/c I don't wanna seem selfish, but I feel like I'm short changing myself if I don't let him know how I feel.
I really don't wanna ruin our friendship b/c of this....what should I do?
Asked by Anonymous at 9:10 AM on Oct. 20, 2010 in Relationships
Always remember, that if you want to date, or be in a relationship....you have to allow yourself to be vulnerable sometimes & you writing that email makes you vulnerable, which is OK & can be a good thing. People put too many walls up which makes it hard to let anybody in. You have to eventually drop your walls when you're interested in someone. I say send the email. Two things could happen....he could tell you he feels the same way, or he could ignore you or tell you he doesn't feel the same way. BUT, at least you'll know where he stands & that is HUGE!
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