At work there are a few frienemies that I get very frustrated at. At first they were nice, but then they change (seems when they get their own perception about another person).
At first they are nice, then they get snotty and clique-ee (spell). It's painful when I try to strike up a professional friendship when their eventual answer is, "What can you do for me?" and "Where are you on my priority list?". Well, few of these frienemies were only speaking to those in their priority list. Not that I was on their list, but I was eventually when I told someone about an opening and sent in a word (which the person was hired). Then these frienimies were my best friends (or at least tried to). My answer to them was, "Go Away!".
How do you deal with frienemies that change their M.O. (method of operation) based on gratuities, especially when their such good actors in the beginning?
Answer by mamacita69930 at 10:34 AM on Oct. 20, 2010
Answer by duckigrrl at 10:35 AM on Oct. 20, 2010
Answer by AllAboutKeeley at 10:42 AM on Oct. 20, 2010
Answer by HaydensMama07 at 11:38 AM on Oct. 20, 2010