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how do u do it? adult content

how do u make time to have sex when u have more than one baby? we have to do it at like 2 or 3 in the morning ughh im sick of it

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Asked by Tiffany_Rivera_ at 12:45 PM on Oct. 20, 2010 in Relationships

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  • We steal moments when we can. Our kids have a regular bed time, and they know not to come out of their rooms unless they are sick. We also plan date nights and try to get away, even if its to a local hotel at least one or two nights every couple months.

    Answer by hobbitswife04 at 1:13 PM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • Sneak away for a few minutes here and there, whenever you can. It's definitely hard but it gets better as they get older.

    Answer by JackieGirl007 at 1:26 PM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • hahaha we were in the closet a couple days ago hehhhe

    Comment by Tiffany_Rivera_ (original poster) at 1:26 PM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • well, with 4 kids and one on the way, I never understand this question! My kids are all in bed by 7 PM, and we go to bed by 9 PM after they are all asleep (ages 1,3,4 and 7) Why would there not be time? As long as YOU are in control and put them in bed, and don't co-sleep, and they know not to get up and come in your room unless it is for a good reason, you shouldnt have any trouble finding the time! I dont know, maybe we just have better control of ou household, and kids than most!

    Answer by JoLee12345 at 2:45 PM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • Once again, I agree with JackieGirl (her answers are all really good!! You go JackieGirl!) and hobbitswife nailed it when she said plan a date night once a week or at least every other week or so. You need grown up time with hubby ;-)

    Answer by KimPippin at 6:56 PM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • Very Carefully.

    Answer by newathis918 at 7:27 PM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • Be sneaky, or have sex in the morning before the kids wake up, or after they go to bed, or somewhere in between! (no pun intended!)

    Answer by nicksmom604 at 7:35 PM on Oct. 20, 2010

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