My mom told my older 1/2 brother, Al, and I a long time ago that she put a son, Ray, up for adoption. He was 2 yr older than Al. She wouldn't really help us find Ray though. She would lie and give us contradictory info. One day, I discovered Sue, on the internet. She was looking for her birthmom (my mom). Turns out, she was the baby my mom put up for adoption. Mom had lied about it being a boy, about it having a medical condition, etc. From what Sue has learned, her dad was horrible and mean and my mom ran away from him, leaving Sue with him... but this is only what she heard... she has no idea if that was the truth. I also discovered my mom was married twice more than we even knew about (she's been married 6 times all together).Answer Question
Answer by Anonymous at 4:37 PM on Oct. 20, 2010
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Answer by Orionsgirl at 4:44 PM on Oct. 20, 2010
I think maybe you need to just leave your mom out of it. There has to be a reason she didn't want you to find her, or contact her. Perhaps the relationship was horrible, and ruined her life. If someone isn't giving you the right info, then that should have been a red flag, and you should have thought a little more about what you were doing.
Answer by Punky_1981 at 6:26 PM on Oct. 20, 2010
Answer by maya123 at 11:14 PM on Oct. 20, 2010