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Do you get embarrassed when .... adult content

your DH/SO wants to...ummm...go down on you and you haven't showered or mantained yet?

This morning DH woke me with some morning delight and got a little upset when I denied a little downage...I hadn't showered yet and felt, well, dirty... poor DH but he is a little disappointed...


Asked by 4_28_bbboy at 4:44 PM on Oct. 20, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I'm sorry. I will be honest, I chuckled when I read this because I can relate. I have a rule of that being a no-no except after showers =)

    Answer by luv2mum at 4:48 PM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • He obviously knew this so I would let him. If he wakes me, it's at his own risk.

    Answer by Jademom07 at 4:46 PM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • i totally agree with you! i dont get it very often from my hubby but when i do i have to be clean. i had an ex that would want to do it all the time, like even after all day at work after sweating and stuff. i cant enjoy myself if i know i havent just stepped out of the shower and shaved, its a "thing" of mine i guess.

    Answer by tnm786 at 4:47 PM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • lol this just reminds me of when DH asked me to go down on him and I told him to take a quick shower...he asked why and I told him that when im down there i dont want to smell sweaty balls lol. But I know how you feel....

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:55 PM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • Hey, far be it from me to deny him something... Obviously when he wakes me up, he knows I haven't showered yet, so if that thought doesn't bother him, why would it bother me? I never really gave it much thought, to be honest. I mean, I've gone down on him in the morning too, it's all good.

    Answer by Anouck at 4:50 PM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • I would be uncomfortable but the other ladies make a good point

    Answer by elizabiza at 4:56 PM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • LOL @ Jademom!! I don't like when I haven't done my usual maintenance routine first. I am very self conscious about not being fresh while he's down there but he doesn't seem to mind. I guess some guys are oblivious to it

    Answer by KimPippin at 6:15 PM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • yes, i don't him licking anything sweaty especially overnight sweat, lol

    Answer by 1LovelyAngel at 6:15 PM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • Yeah, I know where you are coming from. Shower at night, make sure you stay trimmed up, and you won't have so much to think about next time. 


    Answer by Punky_1981 at 6:22 PM on Oct. 20, 2010

  • May I say HELL YEAH

    Answer by newathis918 at 7:28 PM on Oct. 20, 2010