DH is in the military. We have lived away from our home state for almost 6 years. His mom has never once visited us,EVER. We are expecting baby # 2 in March. This is the last year with DS1 as an only child. I want this Christmas to be very intimate and special with just the 3 of us. My MIL has invited her self and her hubby out for christmas and I dont want her here at the time. DH disagrees and wouldnt give a answer to his mom. I think she kinda got the hint but now wants to come for thanksgiving. We already made plans to host a dinner with 8 people! Her and I dont have the relationship to call and chat. We keep it polite and civil but deep down we hate each other and it isnt going to change. If she calls me or DH makes me tell her she cant come for christmas how can I do this? She told DH she will check ticket prices to see what holiday is cheaper. Help me handle this!PLEASE lolAnswer Question
Answer by ohwrite at 12:50 AM on Oct. 21, 2010
Answer by miasmommy21407 at 12:50 AM on Oct. 21, 2010
Answer by Faye1234 at 1:01 AM on Oct. 21, 2010
I wonder why she doesn't like you. She has a right to be with her grandchild. She is willing to change from Christmas to Thanksgiving but you don't want either! You can have every other day of the year very intimate.
Answer by Gailll at 1:16 AM on Oct. 21, 2010
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