That is the grand misconception and I can't deny that I even thought the same way. It's easy to get caught up in the first dating experience and think that it's going to last forever. However, once you get comfortable with someone and you start to share your lives together there are bound to be changes. It's hard to accept changes when they're different from what you loved soo much. An experience, a feeling, a person, a belief .. Whatever it is, that is what you liked about that moment. And when it changes it's hard to feel anything but dissapointment. Which can lead to that feeling that it's done and over with.
However, what people need to realize, what I had to realize is that it's not gone it's just coming through in a different way. And you have to change with the tide in order to stay above the waves. If you don't then you'll get taken down to the deep.
at 11:44 PM on Oct. 21, 2010