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Wouldnt this make you sooooo mad !?!?

I have a 3 year old daughter... when I was pregnant with her and my husband and I kept trying to come up with a middle name he kept pressing for this certain name ( a very uncommon name), for months he talked about how that would be the perfect name.... well I got onto facebook earlier and seen a girl that he used to date... out of curiosity I looked at her profile and what did I see... that, THAT name is HER middle name... It is so uncommon and goofy that there is no way he would just come up with it....

We had a very quick "romance" and got married a few months after meeting ( which I also found out they broke up right before we got together), and then pregnant right away .... and our marriage is pretty much perfect, but I just cannot believe he actually tried something like that... I am SOOOO PISSED and I cannot wait until he gets home from work !!!!

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 11:39 PM on Oct. 21, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (17)
  • Is it her middle name or not? lol
    DonnaPinitonya

    Answer by DonnaPinitonya at 11:40 PM on Oct. 21, 2010

  • I would be pissed. My cousin wanted to name her son, her ex's middle name. I was like She's CRAZY! She still loves him though. I'd be really pissed. Make him sleep on the porch!!!
    dancinintherain

    Answer by dancinintherain at 11:43 PM on Oct. 21, 2010

  • Well I would be pissed, granted..please don't hurt him too bad.
    my2kids312

    Answer by my2kids312 at 11:45 PM on Oct. 21, 2010

  • That's messed up
    Butterfly1108

    Answer by Butterfly1108 at 11:47 PM on Oct. 21, 2010

  • Oh, yes, I would be suuuuuppppppeeeerrrrrrr pissed! Tell us what happened!!!!
    donnareedonLSD

    Answer by donnareedonLSD at 11:47 PM on Oct. 21, 2010

  • WTH
    mamaofficer

    Answer by mamaofficer at 11:51 PM on Oct. 21, 2010

  • It would depend on whether i thought he wanted to use the name because he liked the name or because it reminded him of her. It could be that he just likes the name. So be careful about jumping the gun, especially when you say that your relationship is great.
    tntmom1027

    Answer by tntmom1027 at 11:59 PM on Oct. 21, 2010

  • i agree with tntmom1027. but if he wanted to use the name because it reminded him of her, then i would be really hurt. definitely dont confront him if you've been drinking. not a good idea. (from personal experience lol)
    iluvmybabe

    Answer by iluvmybabe at 12:10 AM on Oct. 22, 2010

  • I think he's got some nerve. I'd be PISSED!!!!
    Shines3

    Answer by Shines3 at 1:04 AM on Oct. 22, 2010

  • its just a name...geez
    stressedmomma13

    Answer by stressedmomma13 at 1:41 AM on Oct. 22, 2010

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