Am trying to keep strong. Am finding that I have to defend myself . Husband says that I threw him out and when he wouldn't talk then said he was threw with me,wanted nothing to do with family, business etc. The next morning he came back said he was sorry-but I didn't let him back in-I had to stop, couldn't take the abuse anymore-. He's not working(been 8 wks) wants to stay away and work on himself, reading stuff on computer and seeing his counselor who told him she couldn't fix 34 yrs of stuff in 1hr. I think I should start divorce -It is nicer not having to put up with his crap-still feel numb-I get so nerved up after conversation with himWill this get easier -what are some of the feelings you go threw-I know I won't get myself in that position ever again. Daughter wants us to have counseling together-I'm not sure if I can take rehashing everything--34 yrs of nothing ever having closure-I'm so tired of the fight.
Answer by Seterah1010 at 2:31 AM on Oct. 22, 2010
Answer by JustMyOpinion22 at 4:12 AM on Oct. 22, 2010
Answer by sarasmommy777 at 3:42 PM on Oct. 22, 2010