So I left the father of my kids a couple months ago, and i've been trying to hold on strong. But it's getting so difficult not bc i want to be with him because i miss him. I haven't been so happy in a long time; I have com to realize that he is not the one. The thing thats hard is that i work full-time, I don't get no help from my family (money, or just watching them) so i can atleast recharge my batteries. Taking care of two kids is hard, I love them with all my heart but sometimes i waish i had alittle help. You know! To get to the point the asshole won't help me financially unless i'm with him. It sucks, i know that's he's way of getting me back. What do you do? DO i stay struggling or do i put up with him until i get a better job. In reality i know the answer, i shouldn't go back bc i need him to help me financially.. I dont know, i just needed to vent alittle.Answer Question
Answer by Jademom07 at 11:52 AM on Oct. 22, 2010
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Answer by Cheveyo1 at 1:13 PM on Oct. 22, 2010
You need to get child support. You do not have to be with some one to have them help take care of their children. After that, go to your local child support office and see if there are any programs that you can get in being a single parent. I know that every state has different programs, see what programs are available in your state. Talk to your neighbors and friends and see if there are any places or anyone who would be willing to help out. I have a similar situation and I know how hard it is to never get a break. Good luck.
Answer by krissyvelazquez at 2:13 PM on Oct. 22, 2010
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