How involved do you think a bio dad and step-mom should be with step-kids? Is there a point where we are intruding on the bio mom's territory?
My step-son is in 1st grade & is getting into physical fights & is physical with his bio mom. He doesn't act like this with us. Bio mom asked for our help last wknd, but doesn't want us coming to meetings at school. She does want our help on the weekends we have him (like carrying out punishments that she can't enforce at her home), & we did this past wknd.
Am I going too far if I contact the school without her consent? Should we look into full custody for a few months? Should I offer her parenting advice & be straight with her, or is that stepping over the line? She calls constantly, but seems to want to vent & give excuses. I don't want to make her mad but what is in the best intrest of my step-son?
How far is too far? Is there a such thing as being too involved?
Answer by mrsmom110 at 5:35 PM on Oct. 22, 2010
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Answer by worriedmommy600 at 6:17 PM on Oct. 22, 2010
The child biological father has EVERY right that contains SCHOOL, DOCTORS and MEDICAL RECORDS, and RELIGION...if you guys do not have a court oder in file then you should cuz that court will make his right be heard and then he is able to do his share...I am a step-mother to my husbands daughter and i have a GREAT relationship with the mom of my s-daughter...I think if you have a good relationship with the babies mom it will help you be able to talk to her...BEST OF LUCK MAMA
Answer by iNk-FrEaK at 8:23 PM on Oct. 22, 2010
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