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Bored on Bottom

Ever since my boyfriend and I have had sex, I'm always on bottom. He would let me be on top whenever I chose to, but I feel we're not "sexually compatible" in that position. I had a partner prior to him, that was wider/more built and I had no problem being on top and keeping consistency when we had sex. I know it sounds like something off-the-wall but with my boyfriend now...I pretty much suck at being on top lol. I hate it because I don't want him doing the work all the time.

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:11 PM on Oct. 29, 2008 in Relationships

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  • try Other postions, do doggy, or reverse cowgirl..thats my fav!!!!

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:15 PM on Oct. 29, 2008

  • Experiment with different positions. I like the reverse cowgirl also! If he's standing behind you, and you're on the bed you can do more work than him that way also.

    Answer by KennsWifey at 2:27 PM on Oct. 29, 2008

  • Try bending over the sink in the bathroom or try the both of you getting on your knees face to face Or try riding him on the couch

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:34 PM on Oct. 29, 2008

  • The couch works great!! If your on bottom try having a leg or two over his shoulders. Have him stand and you on the bed and make like an "L" shape. Use a chair, doggy, reverse cowgirl, spooning. Get a book and dont be afraid to try something new! Not everything works so dont feel bad if it doesnt...

    Answer by ArmyWife112908 at 4:51 PM on Oct. 29, 2008

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