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who do you think the kid is better off with? adult content

a mom that pawns her kid off all the time and smokes weed and has a new boyfriend every month or the dad who goes to the bar 4 times a week to drink and play darts or pool instead of taking care of his kid and don't pay his child support, but is trying to get custody of the kid for what reason IDK?????

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Asked by Anonymous at 4:05 PM on Oct. 23, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (10)
  • Sounds like the kid needs another option. It's sad when people don't put their kids needs first.

    Answer by scout_mom at 4:06 PM on Oct. 23, 2010

  • Neither

    Answer by Melbornj at 4:06 PM on Oct. 23, 2010

  • Is there a grandparent that could take the kid in? Those both sound like sad excuses of options :( poor kid

    Answer by TattooedMama87 at 4:08 PM on Oct. 23, 2010

  • Neither...maybe grandparents or other family...

    Answer by 4_28_bbboy at 5:08 PM on Oct. 23, 2010

  • Neither. This is an impossible question, I hope you know that.

    Answer by Raine2001 at 6:02 PM on Oct. 23, 2010

  • do you know if the father will continue this behavior once he has custody? If he is going to the bar 4 times a week, but does not have his child then, what is wrong with that? What he does when the child is not in his care is not anyone else's business.

    Answer by MommySwiggles at 7:34 PM on Oct. 23, 2010

  • that's the thing when he has her on the weekends he leaves the kid home alone, and i agree what he does on his time is his business, but when he only see his kid every other weekend he can't spend time with his kid he rather be in the bars

    Answer by angie3897 at 7:45 PM on Oct. 23, 2010

  • NEither.

    Answer by Mom2Just1 at 9:11 PM on Oct. 23, 2010

  • Sounds like a loose/loose situation for the poor child-- no matter which parent he gets stuck with he will be ignored because his parents are selfish jerks who care more about smoking weed and drinking than about being with him and parenting him!

    Answer by MizLee at 9:46 PM on Oct. 23, 2010

  • Neither!!

    Answer by LiLJeni at 5:39 AM on Oct. 24, 2010

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