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who do you think the kid is better off with? adult content

a mom that pawns her kid off all the time and smokes weed and has a new boyfriend every month or the dad who goes to the bar 4 times a week to drink and play darts or pool instead of taking care of his kid and don't pay his child support, but is trying to get custody of the kid for what reason IDK?????

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 4:05 PM on Oct. 23, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (10)
  • Sounds like the kid needs another option. It's sad when people don't put their kids needs first.
    scout_mom

    Answer by scout_mom at 4:06 PM on Oct. 23, 2010

  • Neither
    Melbornj

    Answer by Melbornj at 4:06 PM on Oct. 23, 2010

  • Is there a grandparent that could take the kid in? Those both sound like sad excuses of options :( poor kid
    TattooedMama87

    Answer by TattooedMama87 at 4:08 PM on Oct. 23, 2010

  • Neither...maybe grandparents or other family...
    4_28_bbboy

    Answer by 4_28_bbboy at 5:08 PM on Oct. 23, 2010

  • Neither. This is an impossible question, I hope you know that.
    Raine2001

    Answer by Raine2001 at 6:02 PM on Oct. 23, 2010

  • do you know if the father will continue this behavior once he has custody? If he is going to the bar 4 times a week, but does not have his child then, what is wrong with that? What he does when the child is not in his care is not anyone else's business.
    MommySwiggles

    Answer by MommySwiggles at 7:34 PM on Oct. 23, 2010

  • that's the thing when he has her on the weekends he leaves the kid home alone, and i agree what he does on his time is his business, but when he only see his kid every other weekend he can't spend time with his kid he rather be in the bars
    angie3897

    Answer by angie3897 at 7:45 PM on Oct. 23, 2010

  • NEither.
    Mom2Just1

    Answer by Mom2Just1 at 9:11 PM on Oct. 23, 2010

  • Sounds like a loose/loose situation for the poor child-- no matter which parent he gets stuck with he will be ignored because his parents are selfish jerks who care more about smoking weed and drinking than about being with him and parenting him!
    MizLee

    Answer by MizLee at 9:46 PM on Oct. 23, 2010

  • Neither!!
    LiLJeni

    Answer by LiLJeni at 5:39 AM on Oct. 24, 2010

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