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2 Bumps

who do you think the kid is better off with? adult content

a mom that pawns her kid off all the time and smokes weed and has a new boyfriend every month or the dad who goes to the bar 4 times a week to drink and play darts or pool instead of taking care of his kid and don't pay his child support, but is trying to get custody of the kid for what reason IDK?????


Asked by Anonymous at 4:06 PM on Oct. 23, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (9)
  • Again, the child needs another option. Grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, whoever can put the child's needs before their own selfishness.

    Answer by scout_mom at 4:09 PM on Oct. 23, 2010

  • Someone else that is Responsible- until Mom & Dad take some parenting classes & Grow-Up!


    Answer by daisyb at 4:12 PM on Oct. 23, 2010

  • Again I will say neither.

    Answer by Melbornj at 4:07 PM on Oct. 23, 2010

  • How sad, neither. a foster famiy?

    Answer by MrsPilat at 4:10 PM on Oct. 23, 2010

  • Legally Godmother can't take the children unless she is consider by the judge... The grandparents or Foster family should take the children. Both the parents need a freaking wake up call

    Answer by Claudiomom at 4:22 PM on Oct. 23, 2010

  • Neither one of these choices should be a choice. They are irresponsible and will only cause the children more harm than good. If the Godmother can't assist then seek out another relative or foster family. What you have to consider is those children that is the bottom line.

    Answer by Cheveyo1 at 4:35 PM on Oct. 23, 2010

  • grand parents

    Answer by adelinasmommy at 4:07 PM on Oct. 23, 2010

  • The godmother, till the mom finally gets her head out of her ass.

    Answer by Shines3 at 4:09 PM on Oct. 23, 2010

  • the god mother is going through alot in her life right now and has 2 kids to take care of herself, she is an excellent mom and god mother but doesn't need anymore stress in her life and the grandmother is just like her daughter....who do you think her daughter learned from


    Answer by angie3897 at 4:15 PM on Oct. 23, 2010